Today was one of those rare days when for some reason I felt a bit more introspective than usual and started to doubt my strategy – if you can call it that.
I mean really the way that I have chosen to live and cope with my awkward sexual relationship with my otherwise excellent friend Susan, my wife. It is not really a strategy – that would imply that I have some kind of objective or goal, which I don’t.
Anyway back to the introspection. On the drive to work I found myself wondering if my situation is self-inflicted. So if our ‘average’ sexual frequency is once every 2 or 3 months, what is to stop me from demanding sex or just ‘helping myself’ once every week – which is roughly how I think it should be? (more…)
